Avoid dating damaged destructive women

Here is the quick fix: Try to give the need that you feel is missing and it will be returned by your partner.Then start to understand your own needs in a situation. Try to forgive the people involved and realise that you could have given that missing need if you had been more mature and experienced.Every single human problem can be traced back to a feeling of unmet needs and at the deepest level it is a belief that there is a lack of love.Emotional maturity and intelligence is really the ability to become aware of our needs and then not to play them out on the people around us.

Of course our search for somebody to love us is often successful and the sensations of falling in love convince us that our strategy was right.When was the first time in your life when they were not met? Visualise the situation now and give the need to all the people present. As you heal your need you will find that your self-esteem grows.You can do this exercise for all your emotional needs.As long as we search outwards for love we will fail to see that we have it within.

Our strong need for love usually comes from early experiences in our lives where we felt our needs were not met.

Sometimes we may know we are being needy but at others we can be blind to it.