Avoid dating damaged destructive women
Of course our search for somebody to love us is often successful and the sensations of falling in love convince us that our strategy was right.When was the first time in your life when they were not met? Visualise the situation now and give the need to all the people present. As you heal your need you will find that your self-esteem grows.You can do this exercise for all your emotional needs.As long as we search outwards for love we will fail to see that we have it within.
Our strong need for love usually comes from early experiences in our lives where we felt our needs were not met.
Sometimes we may know we are being needy but at others we can be blind to it.